Nobody wants to be anyone’s second option in any form of relationship. And one of the most important relationships you have is the relationship with yourself. I know I’ve been guilty of putting other people, things, priorities and responsibilities first before myself often.

How often do you put yourself first on your list of priorities?

Sometimes you have to be selfish with yourself and your time. Make yourself number one on your to do list. Dedicate some time for you to like you’re the only thing on your list, the only option, and focus on yourself until you’ve really healed, really love yourself like you deserve, really give yourself the time you need to be. I don’t want to be anyone’s second choice or backup plan. But I have to make sure I choose myself first and dedicate time to self-love and whatever else I may need to heal, grow, and function properly.

So today I challenge you to think about what aspects of your life are you not your #1 choice and how can you begin making changes so that you are! And remember to love yourself because you deserve to be loved. 💋 💕